at the moment, since you have not yet introduced yourself, most of your posts have been in the adoption area, and you haven't said please or thank you, we would like you to make a further ten good posts before you come back to this thread. we know it can be tough to take part in the forum without having a baby you feel truly connected to, which is why we set up this thread; however, we also need to see that you want to be part of the community, too!
it doesn't look like you have checked out the newbie guide yet. it's the best place to start out!
in addition to that, do you have another name or nickname we could call you? we already have both a kitty and a kittycat - we are a small, tight-knit community and we don't want to get confused!